Want to know what your purpose in life is? Simple. Hold your hands in front of you. Now look at them. There is your purpose and means to do it.

Purpose is your ability to take the creative energies you have and communicating them with the world. Different people may pick different mediums, but the act of purpose is exactly the same. You could be a manager crafting the art of dealing with people, a programmer crafting the knowledge of algorithms or an entrepreneur crafting the art of a business.

Do not worry if you haven’t found the right medium. Once you feel that great purpose for your life and it comes from within, that is your greatest asset. With that belief you are the leader of your own life.

I know a lot of people who can’t stand being alone. When they find out they are in a bad relationship, they get out and jump on another bad relationship. Sometimes I even notice the relationship is bound to fail even before these people start.

But why it happens to all these people? Simply because they put a lot of their needs dependent on the other person, sometimes even in recently started relationships. Without emotional support, each and every relationship fails.

Relationships should not be the major purpose of life, but something that agreggates value to life. Of course you should enjoy it, but the major purpose of life should be you. Be the first on anything.

Love yourself, enjoy yourself, make plans for you and live your life for you. When you do it, you will be able to have better and healthier relationships, with no need and no place for posession or jealousy.